How Do I Trust Myself When I’m Scared I’ll Regret My Decision?

Oct 29

You’re lying awake, having the same argument with yourself.

Something needs to change.

But what if you regret it? What about the money? The people you’ll hurt? The years you’ve already put in?

And what if you leave everything familiar behind and still don’t feel happy?

I know those questions. I was in a 17-year relationship, still caring deeply about him, while feeling that I needed to walk away.

Knowing what I wanted didn’t make the decision easy.

In this episode of Get In, We’re Done Settling, I’m sharing what choosing myself looked like when I couldn’t guarantee what would happen next.

We’re talking about:

• Caring about someone while knowing the relationship no longer feels right for you.
• The guilt, financial fears and uncertainty that can keep you questioning yourself.
• How I began exploring the difference between my intuition and my fear.
• What “walk and let the way appear” means in my life.
• Building self-trust through small decisions, honest conversations and asking for what you need.
• Being grateful for the life you built while admitting you want something different.

If you keep waiting to feel completely certain before making a change, this episode is for you.

I couldn’t predict my new life before I started making different decisions. I had to begin, take the next step and learn as I went.

Self-trust isn’t believing everything will work out exactly as you planned. It’s believing you can navigate what comes next.

Sometimes the person you’ve outgrown isn’t your partner. It’s the version of yourself who keeps abandoning her own needs.

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